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nothing and everything

21 Nov

Word of mouth ain’t no lie. I decided to take the plunge into the OKC vortex after seeing my friends’ results (bueno y no bueno) and I am reeling in more disciples. (Look at me with my Jesus complex)

One of my friends recently just joined after hearing about my random dating experiences as of late and it’s quite exciting to see her all giddy. As I was making the rounds during my recent “kick back” I sat next to said friend and we proceeded to scan the dudes checking out her profile via the OKCupid app.

Cute…cute…no thank you…..ewww no…this one’s decent…

Then we further fell into the junior-high-school-girl rabbit hole and proceeded to giggle over the different men she has waiting in the wings. She actually has a tentative date with one guy tomorrow night! She even called me to get some advice on how to proceed.


Super flattering because, as the title of my blog suggests, I have no idea what I’m doing! But I did give her some personal pointers and even went over wardrobe options. (First impressions are everything!)

Think of it as a fun interview…and you don’t owe them anything. If it doesn’t work out then it doesn’t work out. You move on. You meet and date other guys. All will be right in the world.

But still impress with your baller “A” game. This is still a potential merger afterall.